1. Employee and Employer Contributions
In most 403(b)/401(k) plans, employees can defer a portion of their salary into the plan, and the employer may offer matching or discretionary contributions. In a divorce, the QDRO must spell out whether both types of contributions are divided and how:
- Was the employer match vested at the date of divorce?
- Is only the employee’s portion being allocated?
- Will the division be based on a specific dollar amount or a percentage?
If the employer’s contributions weren’t fully vested at the time of divorce, the QDRO should address what happens to forfeited amounts. A lack of clarity on these points is one of the most common QDRO mistakes we see.

