Participant vs. Alternate Payee: Who Gets What?
The participant is the employee who earned the retirement benefits. The alternate payee is usually the former spouse. A QDRO specifies the portion of the account to be assigned to the alternate payee. The most common division methods are:
- Percentage-based (e.g., 50% of the marital portion)
- Fixed dollar amount (e.g., $100,000 from the account)
- Shared interest vs. separate interest approaches
Most QDROs for 401(k) plans — including the Iona University Defined Contribution Retirement Plan — use the separate interest approach, which allows the alternate payee to take control of their assigned portion independently.

