1. Employer vs. Employee Contributions
Most 401(k) plans—including likely the Family Delivery Services LLC 401(k) Plan—may include both employee (pre-tax or Roth) and employer (matching or profit-sharing) contributions. Your QDRO must state whether you want to split:
- Just employee contributions
- Both employee and employer
- Only vested portions of employer contributions
If your ex-spouse is the participant and you’re the alternate payee, make sure to confirm whether employer contributions have vested. Do not assume you’re automatically entitled to all of them.

